kenyan wrote:I started to do this, but eventually decided that my answer would depend more upon what my definitions were than what my spending was.
This ^
Yes, "housing" is basic, but living in the relative luxury of our dream home is certainly discretionary.
When we "downsize" - most likely when the stairs become too much of a problem - then we'll need to think about whether we also want to "downsize" in terms of budget.
We could be very comfortable and also very happy in a "smaller place" or a "much smaller place", etc.
We'll probably purchase a somewhat luxury vehicle when our 13-year old Volvo XC-90 finally starts to cost us more.
A comfortable ride is becoming more important to our aging bodies...
But we might just get something fairly soon, for the new safety features, and we might keep updating every few years for that reason.
So how much of the housing budget (and vehicle costs) is discretionary?
We could scale down considerably if needed.
(And we might do so, if that meant we could do more travel, once DH has more time.)
We are very fortunate that we have this flexibility, and we never dreamed it would be this comfortable when we were each first starting out (VERY humble beginnings, and NO help from family along the way).
Unless we went apartment or condo shopping, AND we knew the budgetary constraints at that future time, we have no way to know "how much the basic" would be, etc.
This is all quite different from when we were just starting out, and the rents for the small apartments were a struggle, if we wanted a nicer neighborhood, not too far from work, etc.
There wasn't much "discretionary" back then.
(Sharing a small pizza, and drinking water was a "splurge".)
I think "stage of life" makes a huge difference here.
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