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- Sun Apr 11, 2021 1:34 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: [Spouse recently passed away. Please help me handle his financial matters]
- Replies: 70
- Views: 2421
Re: So what is wrong with not investing?
Condolences 🙏🙏 For now, choose accounts and or funds that have Security of Principle (includes CD's, Treasuries, Money Market, etc) Liquidity Accessibility Read the forum wiki on “Windfalls” Don’t do anything until you read it. Avoid friendly helpful; Financial advisors Wealth managers Bank advisor...
- Sun Apr 11, 2021 8:35 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Where to donate suits
- Replies: 5
- Views: 649
Re: Where to donate suits
Goodwill
Savers
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Savers
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- Sun Apr 11, 2021 8:28 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Has anyone see an inheritance not go as planned? I would like to hear stories from others of what can go wrong.
- Replies: 407
- Views: 46648
Re: Has anyone see an inheritance not go as planned? I would like to hear stories from others of what can go wrong.
Sometimes when a beneficiary thinks that the estate didn't go as planned, it's because the beneficiary was disappointed with the plan, not because it didn't go the way the decedent wanted. However, having planned and administered many estates, I've been involved in many that didn't go the way they ...
- Sun Apr 11, 2021 8:13 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Travel Trailer vs My Pickup Truck: Specs?
- Replies: 46
- Views: 2543
Re: Travel Trailer vs My Pickup Truck: Specs?
OP here. Back story now. I wanted to "dip my toe" into the RV life. An inexpensive option was to buy a small travel trailer and pull it with the truck I now drive. The advice and feedback I received here was invaluable and clear. The scenario will not work. I need a bigger truck or go the...
- Sat Apr 10, 2021 10:58 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Help analyze my HVAC decision
- Replies: 17
- Views: 1278
Re: Help analyze my HVAC decision
We have a fairly simple setup with single speed separate HVAC systems for each of 3 floors. The total coverage is over 5000 sf.
Our total heat and cool costs are no mor than $200/mo during the hottest months of summer and the coldest below freezing months of winter.
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Our total heat and cool costs are no mor than $200/mo during the hottest months of summer and the coldest below freezing months of winter.
j
- Sat Apr 10, 2021 9:50 pm
- Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
- Topic: Investment strategies for high net worth individuals
- Replies: 81
- Views: 10252
Re: Investment strategies for high net worth individuals
Update - I spoke to Vanguard’s personal advisory service over the past week and they told me that they are likely to roll out a direct indexing service soon for ultra high net worth accounts (over $5M invested). The Vanguard rep said they have launched it already for some institutions they work wit...
- Sat Apr 10, 2021 9:43 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: [Spouse recently passed away. Please help me handle his financial matters]
- Replies: 70
- Views: 2421
Re: So what is wrong with not investing?
Condolences 🙏🙏 For now, choose accounts and or funds that have Security of Principle (includes CD's, Treasuries, Money Market, etc) Liquidity Accessibility Read the forum wiki on “Windfalls” Don’t do anything until you read it. Avoid friendly helpful; Financial advisors Wealth managers Bank advisors...
- Sat Apr 10, 2021 9:37 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Theory: The Only Four Situations Justifying Debt
- Replies: 102
- Views: 6493
Re: Theory: The Only Four Situations Justifying Debt
Also these personal “black swans”....
Health catastrophe
Family catastrophe
Disability
Long term disability and health concerns
Lawsuit/ long term extended litigation
Estate catastrophes
Business impacts and failures if a business owner
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Health catastrophe
Family catastrophe
Disability
Long term disability and health concerns
Lawsuit/ long term extended litigation
Estate catastrophes
Business impacts and failures if a business owner
j
- Sat Apr 10, 2021 9:31 pm
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Investment Allocation: Unpredictable Income
- Replies: 16
- Views: 857
Re: Investment Allocation: Unpredictable Income
Given market and economic fluctuations and unpredictability. It would be helpful to approach generating consistent passive income with preservation of principle computed as someone retiring early with supplemental work income. I think this is what you’re alluding to, correct me if that is not so.......
- Sat Apr 10, 2021 7:49 am
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Remind me how to stick to Strategic asset allocation
- Replies: 11
- Views: 805
Re: Remind me how to stick to Strategic asset allocation
Read the site Wiki on
“Investing Behavior Pitfalls”
“IPS”
Might help stick to your IPS.
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“Investing Behavior Pitfalls”
“IPS”
Might help stick to your IPS.
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- Fri Apr 09, 2021 10:18 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: walking shoes with wide toes?
- Replies: 45
- Views: 2478
Re: walking shoes with wide toes?
New Balance classic USA.
M587
Jogging / Running shoes.
Some of the Sketchers in wide sizes.
Sport Energy Afterburn is a good one
The New Balance 928 used to be wide and roomy but the shape and sizes changed a little with overseas manufacturers so now it’s a maybe.
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M587
Jogging / Running shoes.
Some of the Sketchers in wide sizes.
Sport Energy Afterburn is a good one
The New Balance 928 used to be wide and roomy but the shape and sizes changed a little with overseas manufacturers so now it’s a maybe.
j
- Fri Apr 09, 2021 9:01 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Using equity in primary home to invest in multiple investment properties
- Replies: 29
- Views: 1900
Re: Using equity in primary home to invest in multiple investment properties
Questions: Have you invested in R:E residential income property before? Have you had prior experience as a landlord with tenants? Do you plan to self manage or use a property mgt co? Do you have a business plan? Let’s say you have $800 k and have a loan payment for that. Can you make the loan paymen...
- Fri Apr 09, 2021 1:45 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: fan trips GFCI; can I plug into surge protector?
- Replies: 22
- Views: 1309
Re: fan trips GFCI; can I plug into surge protector?
Buy a new fan. If it still trips, have electrician replace outlet and or inspect wiring. A hair dryer in a bathroom at 1500 watts doesn’t trip GFCI. A small fan definitely shouldn’t. +1 For safety, try plugging in another fan. Replace the defective one. Or replace the gfci. It should not be trippin...
- Fri Apr 09, 2021 10:02 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Deck Replacement Options
- Replies: 28
- Views: 1837
Re: Deck Replacement Options
We are looking at replacing our current 15-year-old treated lumber deck, and we're trying to grasp all the options available to us and wanting to ensure that the job is done properly. Our current deck was a DIY job from the first homeowner and was not installed correctly. It is also not to current ...
- Fri Apr 09, 2021 9:50 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Are you competitive? If so, how do you compete as you get older?
- Replies: 46
- Views: 2935
Re: Are you competitive? If so, how do you compete as you get older?
Similar here, lifelong competitive athlete: football/baseball/wrestling/track growing up, football in college, then powerlifting and superbike (motorcycle) racing, then triathlons/running/cycling races as an adult. Injuries (torn biceps, ruptured achilles, two knee surgeries, and now a host of curr...
- Fri Apr 09, 2021 9:36 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Are you competitive? If so, how do you compete as you get older?
- Replies: 46
- Views: 2935
Re: Are you competitive? If so, how do you compete as you get older?
On a larger and more inclusive tangent vs sports. . . . Competitiveness ? VS Ambition ? VS Self Challenge and Growth beyond limitations? VS Complacency? VS Ambivalence? VS Safety, Security, Structure, Boundaries, Limitations? VS Physical vs Emotional vs Competitiveness as a "core person" i...
- Fri Apr 09, 2021 8:33 am
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Newbie needs HELP
- Replies: 3
- Views: 387
Re: Newbie needs HELP
Hello all, I'm new to this forum. Hope it's appropriate to ask for this advice. (Please try not to laugh) I am 57 yr old single person, currently self-employed as a handy person (aka don't make alot of money) have $45K in Home Depot Stock and that is it. Really! What the heck am I to do in order to...
- Fri Apr 09, 2021 8:12 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Housing circumstances
- Replies: 44
- Views: 2582
Re: Housing circumstances
OP: The "elephant in the room" here is the "cultural aspect". (without going into details that might seem off topic) So, let's address this first: 1 In many Asian, Asian Pacific, and (yes) Chinese, Filipino, Southeast Asian, Japanese, other cultures, etc, it is very common to hav...
- Thu Apr 08, 2021 8:52 pm
- Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
- Topic: The Emotional Side of Investing
- Replies: 28
- Views: 2596
Re: The Emotional Side of Investing
There certainly seems to be an emotional component to investing for many. How would you describe what it feels like to make an especially good (or bad) investment decision? How deep does it get?? The moment when realizing that an investment or business venture is going into a bad place and there’s ...
- Thu Apr 08, 2021 5:06 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Are architect estimates for construction costs usually pretty accurate?
- Replies: 21
- Views: 1435
Re: Are architect estimates for construction costs usually pretty accurate?
I've known a handful of people who've done builds or large remodels using an architect. None have stayed in budget. Some ended at 2x original cost. Best wishes. +1 The most extreme example I’ve seen of this was where the original project price was 2.1 million and after a 2-3 year final completion t...
- Thu Apr 08, 2021 9:51 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Are architect estimates for construction costs usually pretty accurate?
- Replies: 21
- Views: 1435
Re: Are architect estimates for construction costs usually pretty accurate?
I've known a handful of people who've done builds or large remodels using an architect. None have stayed in budget. Some ended at 2x original cost. Best wishes. +1 The most extreme example I’ve seen of this was where the original project price was 2.1 million and after a 2-3 year final completion t...
- Thu Apr 08, 2021 8:30 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Are architect estimates for construction costs usually pretty accurate?
- Replies: 21
- Views: 1435
Re: Are architect estimates for construction costs usually pretty accurate?
I am looking at doing an addition to my home, as well as some other big projects. I recently sought out a local architect and told him my plans. He sent me a proposal to draw up plans and also gave me an estimate of what he thinks it will cost for construction. His estimate seems a little high, but...
- Thu Apr 08, 2021 8:15 am
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Suddenly retired; Read the book; Have questions!
- Replies: 21
- Views: 3173
Re: Suddenly retired; Read the book; Have questions!
You may want to format your question in the following manner: https://www.bogleheads.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=6212 This would allow us to know specifically what your situation is, and how to best advise you to proceed. It also lays out all your assets, income, and expenses in a standardized format...
- Thu Apr 08, 2021 8:13 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Shoe Choice for a Walker
- Replies: 33
- Views: 2625
Re: Shoe Choice for a Walker
New Balance used to have a chart matching various types/models of walking/jogging shoes to type of foot. IE: high arch, low arch, medium, flat foot, etc. But, their sizing and quality has dropped since outsourcing more of their products overseas. There is a line of New Balance that is USA made that ...
- Thu Apr 08, 2021 8:10 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Anyone buy a car using Costco Auto?
- Replies: 28
- Views: 5407
Re: Anyone buy a car using Costco Auto?
We recently had a quote from Costco Auto for a 2021 Toyota 4Runner TRD Pro/Limited. The discount was not greater than what we could get when bargaining with various dealerships. Perhaps it depends on the type of car and area, etc.
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- Thu Apr 08, 2021 8:07 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: How much $$ to get kitchen cabinets painted?
- Replies: 42
- Views: 4056
Re: How much $$ to get kitchen cabinets painted?
There is an alternate kitchen cabinet remodel, besides painting them, that involves refinishing the face frames and installing new doors for a very new and different look. Have you considered that?
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- Thu Apr 08, 2021 8:00 am
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Why not use cash for RE rentals?
- Replies: 29
- Views: 2433
Re: Why not use cash for RE rentals?
I'm looking for a sanity check on an idea that I might change my AA from 50/50 to 50/25/25 (stock/RE/bond). The reason: diversification. I'm uncomfortable with so much in cash/bonds "doing nothing" but not comfortable increasing equity. I see the RE risk as about midway between stock and ...
- Thu Apr 08, 2021 7:50 am
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: What to do with $500k which may be needed at any time
- Replies: 6
- Views: 1134
Re: What to do with $500k which may be needed at any time
Your criteria, regardless of account or fund are:
1 Security of Principle
2 Liquidity
3 Accessibility
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1 Security of Principle
2 Liquidity
3 Accessibility
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- Thu Apr 08, 2021 7:46 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Pool Walking Shoe?
- Replies: 8
- Views: 722
Re: Pool Walking Shoe?
I wear scuba dive boots/shoes for all my aquatic needs. I've had to same pair for almost 2 decades. They have a hard rubber sole with traction. I love them because they also allow me to walk on rocky surfaces when needed. I don't know the brand, but I would recommend a quality dive boot/shoe. The s...
- Wed Apr 07, 2021 8:29 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Invited to join HOA board. Pros/cons?
- Replies: 74
- Views: 6732
Re: Invited to join HOA board. Pros/cons?
Every time I read threads like this, I am so happy that I don't have an HOA to worry about. Rules governing who can park in my own driveway or how many dogs I can have? I don't care how reasonable the board is about it, that should be nobody's business but mine. Perfectly reasonable reaction, until...
- Wed Apr 07, 2021 8:24 pm
- Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
- Topic: What is your contrarian/alternative play?
- Replies: 101
- Views: 8562
Re: What is your contrarian/alternative play?
6 fund hybrid (2 fund) LMP per Bernstein.
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- Wed Apr 07, 2021 3:54 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Invited to join HOA board. Pros/cons?
- Replies: 74
- Views: 6732
Re: Invited to join HOA board. Pros/cons?
Boards, chairs, and committees....etc. Depending on positions. And depending if position is code compliance ..... You will be noticed You will be liked or disliked or resented You will make friends....and alliances...or otherwise Sometimes it feels important Sometimes it is rewarding ....or thankles...
- Wed Apr 07, 2021 11:38 am
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: How much cash do you really hold?
- Replies: 91
- Views: 6218
Re: How much cash do you really hold?
Perhaps “X” in annual expenses might be a better metric for some folks.
And different if one is in an income earning pre retirement stage or post retirement non working.
In my case as a retiree, 2x.
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And different if one is in an income earning pre retirement stage or post retirement non working.
In my case as a retiree, 2x.
j
- Wed Apr 07, 2021 9:17 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Should I buy a SLR camera without a built in flash?
- Replies: 90
- Views: 3234
Re: Should I buy a SLR camera without a built in flash?
This thread has gotten completely derailed. As far as we know the OP has an upper-mid-range 14-year old dslr with a built-in flash, 12mp crop sensor and a kit lens. The OP is considering upgrading to what today is roughly the equivalent camera. The D300 was more or less the D850 of its day, despite...
- Wed Apr 07, 2021 7:58 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Should I buy a SLR camera without a built in flash?
- Replies: 90
- Views: 3234
Re: Should I buy a SLR camera without a built in flash?
My point is, "pro" is not just marketing per your comment I quoted. There are real and important differences in the camera features. Certainly when I look at Nikon's line, for example, it is very obvious which cameras are aimed at more serious photographers. Could you give me an example o...
- Tue Apr 06, 2021 8:39 pm
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Anxiety/Overthinking
- Replies: 35
- Views: 2700
Re: Anxiety/Overthinking
Per your mention of anxiety history and overthinking as related to financial path. Why do you have a history of anxiety? What brings it on? Life challenges? Insecurity? Performance anxiety? Debt? Lack of a guaranteed direction and results? Actionably. Be so busy striving and overcoming obstacles tow...
- Tue Apr 06, 2021 8:04 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Should I buy a SLR camera without a built in flash?
- Replies: 90
- Views: 3234
Re: Should I buy a SLR camera without a built in flash?
Ah, no. It is not marketing. There is no official enforceable definition of a pro camera. There are some characteristics often found in cameras labeled pro, but it's not guaranteed, and there are cameras not labelled pro that can share many if not all of those features. For that matter, there are m...
- Tue Apr 06, 2021 12:49 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Should I buy a SLR camera without a built in flash?
- Replies: 90
- Views: 3234
Re: Should I buy a SLR camera without a built in flash?
My understanding is that part of what makes professional level cameras more expensive is not that they necessarily take better pictures, it is that it is more rugged and weather resistant and it does not sound like you need that. A professional camera is whatever the marketing department of the man...
- Tue Apr 06, 2021 9:18 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Recommendation for simple home gym
- Replies: 41
- Views: 3222
Re: Recommendation for simple home gym
Basic female (non injury) "fitness", does not have to be "Rocky or super gym guy level. Obviously, nobody must be "super gym guy", but I think women are often sold short by society and the fitness industry and told they can't (or shouldn't) do higher intensity training or s...
- Tue Apr 06, 2021 9:07 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Recommendation for simple home gym
- Replies: 41
- Views: 3222
Re: Recommendation for simple home gym
+1cheese_breath wrote: ↑Tue Apr 06, 2021 9:06 am+1 except for some inexpensive resistance bands which I've already recommended to get started.UpperNwGuy wrote: ↑Tue Apr 06, 2021 8:22 am Don't let her spend a dime on any equipment until she proves her commitment by doing a program of walking and other equipment-free exercises for a least two months.
Great point!
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- Tue Apr 06, 2021 9:06 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Should I buy a SLR camera without a built in flash?
- Replies: 90
- Views: 3234
Re: Should I buy a SLR camera without a built in flash?
Thread for those that are familiar with high end SLR cameras.... I have my eye on a professional SLR camera, likely the Nikon D850 but also considering the Canon 5D Mark IV camera. One thing that I have discovered is that neither professional-grade camera has a built in flash. Currently I use a Nik...
- Tue Apr 06, 2021 8:52 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Carpenter ants in a window
- Replies: 7
- Views: 595
Re: Carpenter ants in a window
With some nicer weather, we've opened some rarely opened windows and I'm not sure what to do now. In one window on the second floor, there are carpenter ants (ants with wings) coming up from the bottom channel. If the window is closed, they do not come into the house. What is my next step in figuri...
- Tue Apr 06, 2021 8:51 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: I feel like my friend is about to make a massive financial mistake
- Replies: 153
- Views: 22232
Re: I feel like my friend is about to make a massive financial mistake
Sooo... in a nutshell my friend, his girlfriend, and 3 of her siblings want to by land to start kind of a family compound/farm. They range from mid 20s to mid 30s. This isn't like a cocktail napkin thing they are quite far along in discussing it. Their plan is to form an LLC to purchase land and th...
- Tue Apr 06, 2021 8:45 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Recommendation for simple home gym
- Replies: 41
- Views: 3222
Re: Recommendation for simple home gym
This isn't for me. This is for my sister-in-law that just came to the realization that she needs to make her health a priority. She knows we're pretty into working out and asked for recommendations on how to get started. She told me recently that she really hasn't done any sort of exercise in proba...
- Tue Apr 06, 2021 8:34 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: I feel like my friend is about to make a massive financial mistake
- Replies: 153
- Views: 22232
Re: I feel like my friend is about to make a massive financial mistake
Sooo... in a nutshell my friend, his girlfriend, and 3 of her siblings want to by land to start kind of a family compound/farm. They range from mid 20s to mid 30s. This isn't like a cocktail napkin thing they are quite far along in discussing it. Their plan is to form an LLC to purchase land and th...
- Tue Apr 06, 2021 8:30 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Talk me out of DIY Yard drain project.....
- Replies: 37
- Views: 2975
Re: Talk me out of DIY Yard drain project.....
Late last year, I rented a mini excavator (get the smallest bucket) for a week and trenched for underground drain lines for 4 buildings. As stated earlier, not hitting gas lines, power lines, septic lines, etc, is "critical". Having a machine for trenching does not eliminate using a shovel...
- Tue Apr 06, 2021 8:26 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Talk me out of DIY Yard drain project.....
- Replies: 37
- Views: 2975
Re: Talk me out of DIY Yard drain project.....
I'm not going to talk you out of it. Go for it! I'd use flexible pipe though.... but nothing wrong with smooth PVC........ All of my down spouts are routed a hundred plus feet underground, via corrugated black pipe, out to the woods. works great...... you'd think the black pipe would collapse, but ...
- Mon Apr 05, 2021 11:27 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Talk me out of DIY Yard drain project.....
- Replies: 37
- Views: 2975
Re: Talk me out of DIY Yard drain project.....
Perhaps when everything is done it might result in less $ savings and more work than you thought and results may not fully meet spouses expectations. So.... have fun doing it for it’s own rewards. Or Hire, save your spine, make sure it meets spouses expectations. Just because we “can” do something d...
- Mon Apr 05, 2021 8:04 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Buying pantry items in bulk
- Replies: 22
- Views: 1894
Re: Buying pantry items in bulk
I find Amazon pantry items to be much more expensive than I pay at a regular grocery store. First, analyze what pantry items your family will actually use. Definitely don't bulk buy anything you don't currently use. I have the best luck at our Kroger affiliate and their case lot sale. We buy canned...
- Mon Apr 05, 2021 6:14 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Deck Levelling- Potential Foundation issues
- Replies: 46
- Views: 2244
Re: Deck Levelling- Potential Foundation issues
1 remove some boards by the house side to see if there’s a ledger attached to the Ext house wall. 2 remove some boards on the opposite end to look under and get an idea of the condition and structure. 3 I’ve never seen a wood deck with the joists and beams so low to the ground. Likely the main beam ...