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- Sat Apr 10, 2021 8:55 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: In-Laws' HOA demanding $8000 lumpsum payment
- Replies: 91
- Views: 10540
Re: In-Laws' HOA demanding $8000 lumpsum payment
Assuming this wasn’t disclosed, if title insurance isn’t good for this, I’m not sure what it’s good for. All of us have wasted hundreds of dollars or more on title insurance whenever we buy a house. It’s time someone filed an actual claim for the rest of us. Title insurance is a huge ripoff and thi...
- Sat Apr 10, 2021 8:30 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: How quickly did you receive your 2020 tax refund?
- Replies: 137
- Views: 11635
Re: How quickly did you receive your 2020 tax refund?
Filed last weekend and just received my refund overnight so less than a week. Definitely the fastest I’ve ever received it.
- Fri Apr 09, 2021 6:55 pm
- Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
- Topic: FSMAX Shows 6% Loss Today?
- Replies: 39
- Views: 2514
- Fri Apr 09, 2021 6:50 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: In-Laws' HOA demanding $8000 lumpsum payment
- Replies: 91
- Views: 10540
Re: In-Laws' HOA demanding $8000 lumpsum payment
Conceptually this is the type of thing that title insurance should cover, so I would give them a call. For $8k, it’s worth consulting with a real estate attorney after that if the title insurer won’t cover it.
- Mon Apr 05, 2021 9:50 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Am I crazy for having a high deductible?
- Replies: 18
- Views: 1940
Re: Am I crazy for having a high deductible?
$25k deductible here. I would never file a claim for a non-catastrophic damage for the reasons mentioned by other posters. Just received our renewal notice and the premium is 2.1k. The quotes I received for similar coverage but a 5k deductible were 3.3-5k. Insurance companies are in business to make...
- Mon Apr 05, 2021 4:10 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Should I opt for deferred compensation ? seeking advise
- Replies: 31
- Views: 3090
Re: Should I opt for deferred compensation ? seeking advise
Actually, I would think the opposite regarding whether to do this when you're close to retirement. I think these work best when you're pretty sure that this is the last company you're going to work for before retirement and you're pretty sure that, post retirement, you'll be in a lower tax bracket....
- Sun Apr 04, 2021 7:14 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Should I opt for deferred compensation ? seeking advise
- Replies: 31
- Views: 3090
Re: Should I opt for deferred compensation ? seeking advise
I wouldn’t fool with it if you’re planning to retire in 5 years. The tax gains in your situation are not that big. There’s also risk that 1) your employer goes bust - low I know 2) your employer is acquired or otherwise shuts the plan. The latter happened to me and resulted in the one time distribut...
- Fri Jan 08, 2021 11:33 am
- Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
- Topic: US Stocks: Is anyone else facepalming right now?
- Replies: 48
- Views: 4868
Re: US Stocks: Is anyone else facepalming right now?
It really is starting to feel like a bubble, especially in certain stocks like TSLA. I mean is TSLA really worth nearly $1 trillion, or more than the rest of the entire auto industry combined? I love their product but the auto industry isn't going to converge to a monopoly or something. It's hard to...
- Thu Dec 31, 2020 10:24 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Share your net worth progression
- Replies: 2507
- Views: 575593
Re: Share your net worth progression
I thought I'd post mine. I rebased the amounts to start at 100 since I'm not comfortable sharing the absolute numbers. 2009 | Rebased to 100 <-- First year working, starting with decent savings pie and saved as aggressively as possible on a high XXk income 2010 | Not sure didn't track 2011 | Not sur...
- Thu Dec 31, 2020 10:01 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Share your net worth progression
- Replies: 2507
- Views: 575593
Re: Share your net worth progression
2004 |$167K | 22 2005 | $210K |23 2006 | $255K | 24 2007 | $389K | 25 2008 | $432K | 26 2009 | $501K | 27 2010 | $587K | 28 2011 | $1MM | 29 <= IPO 2012 | $1.6MM |30 2013 | $1.9MM |31 2014 | $2.1MM |32 2015 | $2.4MM |33 2016 | $2.5MM | 34 2017 | $2.9MM | 35 2018 | $2.7MM |36 2019 | $3.2MM |37 2020 ...
- Sat Dec 12, 2020 7:14 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Relocation to Houston, Texas from SF Bay - Advice
- Replies: 102
- Views: 9028
Re: Relocation to Houston, Texas from SF Bay - Advice
I spent quite a number of years in Houston and also lived in the Bay for a shorter period of time. If I had $6mn net worth, the last place I would move to is Houston. The weather is miserably hot and humid, the city has a horrible sprawl problem compounded by the lack of zoning laws, and natural bea...
- Fri Dec 04, 2020 9:44 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Refinance Mega Thread
- Replies: 10234
- Views: 735971
Re: Refinance Mega Thread
Adding my numbers: Loanflight Conventional 30yr fixed @ 2.375% No points, but I bear the standard closing costs Locked in early November Scheduled to close by YE I received quotes from 8 lenders and this was the best I could find. Loan Cabin was teasing a slight lender credit at the same rate, but t...
- Fri Dec 04, 2020 9:36 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Career decision - advice needed
- Replies: 11
- Views: 1580
Re: Career decision - advice needed
Two main questions: 1) How much do you have in non-retirement savings in case you get "re-forloughed"? 2) How quickly does your dream job want you to return? Personally, I would try to pursue option #3 and push for some time to see how things play out. You shouldn't mention that as your mo...
- Mon Nov 09, 2020 9:50 am
- Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
- Topic: A return of the Roaring 20s?
- Replies: 37
- Views: 5758
Re: A return of the Roaring 20s?
Who knows but this feels like it could be the 90s all over again. Stable government, huge scientific advances in short periods of time, few existential threats to peace and prosperity. I'm loving it. 

- Sun Nov 08, 2020 4:13 pm
- Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
- Topic: Where would you be if you had invested like a Boglehead from the beginning?
- Replies: 107
- Views: 8096
Re: Where would you be if you had invested like a Boglehead from the beginning?
Probably a few 100k more. Not life changing, but enough to be mad about and probably pushed out FI by 2 years. Thankfully we always had good savings habits so are doing well overall. What makes me mad is that the industry is allowed to operate like this. If any other industry robbed their customers ...
- Mon Nov 02, 2020 6:56 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Anyone Else Feel Broke Trying to Maintain a High Savings Rate?
- Replies: 114
- Views: 12008
Re: Anyone Else Feel Broke Trying to Maintain a High Savings Rate?
Assuming your mortgage payment includes tax and insurance it's quite reasonable. If it doesn't, then the equation gets tighter depending upon just how high your tax and property insurance are. Either way, a 30% savings rate on 65k income would be very difficult in most parts of the country. Certain ...
- Sat Oct 31, 2020 2:40 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: husband wants to move to HCOL state
- Replies: 133
- Views: 7351
Re: husband wants to move to HCOL state
Life’s too short to live in New Jersey. Make the move and give it a try.
- Tue Sep 29, 2020 3:59 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: HVAC refrigerant leak issue
- Replies: 17
- Views: 1285
- Mon Sep 21, 2020 5:43 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Worst financial decision that you were able to turn around and make it into a positive?
- Replies: 14
- Views: 2050
Re: Worst financial decision that you were able to turn around and make it into a positive?
About a decade ago I had my entire IRA invested in 2-3 mutual funds at a midsized "value" investment manager that charged a 1.2-1.4% management fee for the privilege. Their funds performed horribly while the market roared back after the 2008 crisis. I don't know how they could have lost mo...
- Mon Sep 21, 2020 2:21 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: How to discuss with HR that I live in multiple places...
- Replies: 28
- Views: 4132
Re: How to discuss with HR that I live in multiple places...
You mentioned that you travel quite a bit and stay at ST rentals - are those all within the same state? If you’re splitting time across multiple states it could get very complex for tax purposes which HR probably wouldn’t like. If it’s all within the same state, just give HR whatever address you use...
- Mon Aug 31, 2020 2:44 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: HELP with any advice for dealing with Paypal.
- Replies: 25
- Views: 1598
Re: HELP with any advice for dealing with Paypal.
How did you find/transact with the buyer? eBay, Craigslist, another platform? This is most likely a scam so I wouldn't expect the buyer to care about a refund offer. Unfortunately, the payment companies are notorious for siding with buyers in chargeback disputes, so you may not have much recourse. W...
- Sun Aug 30, 2020 12:36 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Share your net worth progression
- Replies: 2507
- Views: 575593
Re: Share your net worth progression
It's interesting how this thread is revived when the market reaches all-time highs and goes silent for long periods when the market dips. Perhaps a contrarian indicator, not that anybody should try to time the market 

- Sun Aug 30, 2020 10:52 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: First time considering AirBnB or VRBO
- Replies: 23
- Views: 1744
Re: First time considering AirBnB or VRBO
We've used AirBnb about 20 times in multiple cities + international and only had one bad experience. So yes, I recommend it. To your questions: When renting through either VRBO or AirBnB, is there any advice you would offer me based on past experiences, lessons learned the hard way, etc. Do’s and do...
- Sun Aug 30, 2020 10:31 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Just found my dream home/offer accepted, need lending ASAP and have important questions, you're my main resource
- Replies: 91
- Views: 6966
Re: Just found my dream home/offer accepted, need lending ASAP and have important questions, you're my main resource
To answer OP's questions: 1. Are there any lenders you'd recommend I add to my list above to call and get rates from? The list you mentioned is good. The main challenge will be finding a lender that can close on a relatively short timeline. You might end up paying a slightly higher rate to accomplis...
- Sat Aug 22, 2020 2:54 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Contemplating $875K Home Purchase
- Replies: 31
- Views: 4211
Re: Contemplating $875K Home Purchase
Yes you can afford it. We did it with roughly similar numbers to yours and have never felt stretched. Add in that your wife might return to work and it's very comfortable.
- Wed Aug 19, 2020 7:49 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Lab work when buying Term Life insurance
- Replies: 6
- Views: 564
Re: Lab work when buying Term Life insurance
Mine was at a local outsourced lab service like Quest or LabCorp. They also offered to send a tech to my house to perform the test - my spouse elected for this option. They measured weight and blood pressure and took blood and urine samples. Very easy process, I wouldn't worry about it.
- Sun Aug 16, 2020 11:39 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Desperately need advice regarding my business lease.
- Replies: 33
- Views: 2150
Re: Desperately need advice regarding my business lease.
Haven’t you posted this exact same topic three times now? The first time everybody told you not to make this deal. The second time you were given advice on how to get out of it. It doesn’t seem like you listen to anybody on here.
- Wed Jul 29, 2020 7:33 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Financial services industry advice for a career changer
- Replies: 19
- Views: 1664
Re: Financial services industry advice for a career changer
Why does she want to leave corporate finance?
- Wed Jul 29, 2020 7:30 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: AirPods Wireless Charging Question
- Replies: 9
- Views: 744
Re: AirPods Wireless Charging Question
Just tried mine. The light on the case comes on which I assume means its charging. Does your case light come on even without the earbuds in?
- Tue Jul 21, 2020 12:37 pm
- Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
- Topic: Peter Schiff - a perspective
- Replies: 21
- Views: 1650
Re: Peter Schiff - a perspective
He’s always wrong. Knowing that is just as useful as knowing somebody is always right.
- Tue Jul 14, 2020 2:19 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Sudden loss in battery life: iPhone 7
- Replies: 30
- Views: 1819
Re: Sudden loss in battery life: iPhone 7
I replaced the battery in my iphone 6 twice before buying the iPhone 11. Once they're worn out, they start to fade quickly. If you're on the original you definitely need to replace it. If you're in a major city you can usually get a 3rd party technician to drive to your house and replace it for $75-...
- Mon Jul 13, 2020 11:17 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Talk me out of paying off mortgage
- Replies: 146
- Views: 9152
Re: Talk me out of paying off mortgage
With your rate locked in at 2.875% for 15 years I would definitely not pay it off. What are the chances that inflation alone could be higher than 2.875% over the period? I would say decent. If that happens, the bank is effectively paying your house off for you. Several years ago I thought about payi...
- Wed Jul 01, 2020 2:51 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Sanity Check: Career Gap Year
- Replies: 40
- Views: 2616
Re: Sanity Check: Career Gap Year
I'm surprised the responses thus far are so pessimistic about this idea. You are in an amazing financial position. Even assuming your expenses are understated a bit, you have a paid off house and an investment portfolio that, left untouched, will fully fund your retirement when you're in your 60's....
- Wed Jul 01, 2020 12:33 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Sanity Check: Career Gap Year
- Replies: 40
- Views: 2616
Re: Sanity Check: Career Gap Year
My advice from somebody in a similar situation and age range: I would take 2 weeks of vacation and use that time to figure out what you want to do next. I did that about 2 years ago and charted out a new career path that I am currently in the process of transitioning towards. I wanted to be running ...
- Tue Jun 30, 2020 10:24 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: At what point can you justify a $10k+ flight?
- Replies: 75
- Views: 4757
Re: At what point can you justify a $10k+ flight?
My wife and I have done it several times and I've done it dozens of times for work. We basically budget $10-15k a year for vacation. Some years are less (definitely less this year :( ), some more. So basically every 2-3 years we have the opportunity to take an awesome 1-2 week international trip. I...
- Tue Jun 30, 2020 4:10 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: At what point can you justify a $10k+ flight?
- Replies: 75
- Views: 4757
Re: At what point can you justify a $10k+ flight?
My wife and I have done it several times and I've done it dozens of times for work. We basically budget $10-15k a year for vacation. Some years are less (definitely less this year :( ), some more. So basically every 2-3 years we have the opportunity to take an awesome 1-2 week international trip. If...
- Tue Jun 30, 2020 3:58 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Question - Reloc to TX
- Replies: 105
- Views: 8304
Re: Question - Reloc to TX
I think you're generally on the right track - rent for the first year and see how you like living in Dallas and your new job. I would worry about everything else later and certainly not plan my life/retirement around taxes or whether I own property in Dallas or not. I will say that property taxes ar...
- Sun Jun 07, 2020 11:49 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Do you feel safe going to a hair salon or barber shop?
- Replies: 32
- Views: 1775
Re: Do you feel safe going to a hair salon or barber shop?
I did it ~3 weeks ago. I felt reasonably ok with it because each of the barbers at my regular place have their own segregated room, so it wasn't an open bay-like area that you usually see. We both wore masks the entire time and I didn't have him wash/rinse my hair afterwards. I will definitely reduc...
- Sun Jun 07, 2020 11:41 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Can we afford 600k house?
- Replies: 95
- Views: 9357
Re: Can we afford 600k house?
Short answer is yes you can, but it will be tight if your wife does not return to work. PITI and basic maintenance alone add up to ~30% of your pretax income assuming you get a bonus, and low 30s if you don't. If I were you, given that you're also moving across the country, I would rent for 1-2 year...
- Wed Jun 03, 2020 3:27 pm
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Advice for 19 year old with $10k?
- Replies: 20
- Views: 1420
Re: Advice for 19 year old with $10k?
Congrats and good luck on your college adventure. As mentioned, if you have earned income you can contribute to your IRA to either the lower of your earned income amount or $6k. If you don't have earned income, you can invest the money in a regular taxable account (you will likely pay zero tax anywa...
- Wed Jun 03, 2020 3:19 pm
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Admiral shares for Financial Services Industry employees
- Replies: 20
- Views: 838
Re: Admiral shares for Financial Services Industry employees
Hi all, I am employed by a brokerage firm and must keep all of my brokerage accounts with my employer. I can buy Investor class Vanguard funds and Admiral Index funds through my employer but I am looking to buy VWIAX and can only do so at Vanguard. The problem is that I am not allowed to establish ...
- Thu May 14, 2020 8:05 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Personally guaranteed business loan
- Replies: 13
- Views: 871
Re: Personally guaranteed business loan
Your home equity, 529, and retirement accounts may or may not be shielded depending upon the state you live in. In my state, all three are generally protected except in limited cases such as fraud. I'm not sure when the clock would start on this (i.e. when the loan was originated, or some later date...
- Mon May 11, 2020 4:12 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Car Insurance; Bad Driver Penalty
- Replies: 21
- Views: 1811
Re: Car Insurance; Bad Driver Penalty
I'm assuming they have comprehensive coverage at that premium? They should consider dropping down to liability only. $3500/year already seems very high, $6k is crazy and it might be worth it just to uber everywhere instead. For reference, we have liability only on two vehicles and pay ~$750/year for...
- Mon May 11, 2020 4:01 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: $5k - $7k to replace engine, or get something else? (loan on car)
- Replies: 109
- Views: 7284
Re: $5k - $7k to replace engine, or get something else? (loan on car)
If you are in/near a large city call an independent shop that specializes in replacing engines. These places work on dozens of vehicles per day and have engine replacement down to a science. They should be able to quote you the total cost to replace the engine on the phone. $5-7k is high especially ...
- Mon May 04, 2020 10:23 am
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: HVAC Experts
- Replies: 13
- Views: 1901
Re: HVAC Experts
Going to put a new HVAC system in our 2800 square foot townhome in Nebraska (think below zero in winter, and over 100° in summer with high humidity). Two floors. No basement. Gas heat. Can you provide any guidance on the unit we should be searching for ? Don't believe calculations. I did and ended ...
- Sun May 03, 2020 8:42 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: HVAC Proposals - Any Thoughts
- Replies: 14
- Views: 1528
Re: HVAC Proposals - Any Thoughts
The prices all seem somewhat high so I would get more quotes. We replaced our A/C two years ago and also considered replacing the furnace. I spent a fair amount of time researching the decision and came to the following conclusions: - Going with an expensive dual-stage A/C or furnace almost never ma...
- Sun May 03, 2020 8:18 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: All gift cards orders on cardcash.com declined?
- Replies: 14
- Views: 1694
Re: All gift cards orders on cardcash.com declined?
I've had the same issue with them, though I can usually get it to work if I call the card company. Breaking the transactions up generally helps too (i.e. buying 5x $20 cards, then doing the same again in a few days instead of trying for one $200 card). I've had the least problems with Raise FYI. Eit...
- Sat May 02, 2020 9:54 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Please help me unravel my parents mess
- Replies: 55
- Views: 6915
Re: Please help me unravel my parents mess
Your parents' situation sounds similar to mine, even down to having a large chunk of XOM stock, though the other details are different. Overall, they seem to be in good financial shape, but some changes should be made quickly: 1) Find and hire a good fiduciary financial advisor. This eliminates Edwa...
- Sat May 02, 2020 12:27 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Mortgage Payoff or Invest
- Replies: 8
- Views: 1148
Re: Mortgage Payoff or Invest
You need to diversify away from the ESOP ASAP without racking up a huge tax bill. I would sell the 345k over the next three years, or however fast you can do it without getting into a high tax bracket, and invest the proceeds into a diversified index fund. The problem with using the proceeds to payo...
- Sat May 02, 2020 12:16 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Max 401(k) limits when doing backdoor roth
- Replies: 3
- Views: 565
Re: Max 401(k) limits when doing backdoor roth
Nope they're two separate limits. I max out both every year.